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21 proven ways to help him last longer in bed
Of all the questions I am asked by men, this is the one that always tops the list. Here’s a definitive answer: these are the techniques and solutions that are proven to help men last longer in bed....
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Is it a problem if I can only orgasm with my vibrator?
‘What if I can only orgasm one way?’ is a question I am often asked by women. Is this a bad thing? Which method is ‘best’? What do I say to my partner who thinks I should orgasm during intercourse? Can...
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I can only orgasm when I’m alone
Here’s the second in a three-part guide for women on what happens when you can only orgasm one way. Is it a problem? Can you be taught to climax a different way? All the answers are here. (Part 1: I...
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I can only orgasm when I’m on top
Here’s the second in a three-part guide for women on what happens when you can only orgasm one way. Is it a problem? Can you be taught how to climax a different way? All the answers are here. You’ll...
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Could your relationship survive without sex?
Can a relationship survive without sex? Short answer: yes. A relationship can survive perfectly well without sex. Hang on, I hear you say, survive is one thing but what about thrive? Surprisingly, the...
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A journey back to joy – and sex
It’s rare that I hand over my blog to someone else. But this isn’t just anyone. Kelsey Chittick is a writer, comedian, inspirational speaker, life coach – and my co-host on our weekly podcast, SexTok...
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When stopping sex isn’t the answer
A lack of sex isn’t always a sign of trouble and last week’s blog looked at the scenarios where NOT having sex isn’t usually an issue. Now let’s look at when it is. Deciding to stop having sex in a...
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5 ways to have sex – without actually having it
Photo by Dainis Graveris on Unsplash Hands up if you think penis-in-vagina sex is often the most uninspired, least enjoyable part. Well, that’s one hand waving in the air – mine! Tongues and fingers...
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The six stages that lead to a sexless relationship
When was the last time you had sex? Last night? Last week? Last month? Last…year? I’m the first to argue that frequency isn’t the most important element of a good sex life – satisfaction is. But if...
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A four-step plan to help women who don’t want sex
‘Why don’t I feel like sex?’ is the question I am most asked by women. It’s always been the most asked question and I have been writing about sex and relationships for decades. ‘I dread having sex....
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Ever had sex with someone just because it seemed rude not to?
Ever had polite sex? I have. I grew up in the sexually liberated 80s. I worked for Cosmopolitan magazine and was heavily influenced by the ‘Women can do anything men can’ feminist mantra of the time....
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‘The baby arrived and my sex drive left’
“Help! The baby arrived and my sex drive went. I haven’t felt like sex since.” Emails like this plop into my inbox with dogged regularity – and they have since I started writing about sex thirty years...
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If I want to be polyamorous, when do I tell a prospective partner?
“I am interested in being polyamorous and dating more than one person at once. When is the right time to tell a new partner that you are intending on having relationships with more than one person? I...
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